Dating Skills, English, Etiquette, General
Meeting girls at a cocktail party (part 4)
How else can you show off your charm during a cocktail party conversation? What if a conversation turns boring, how do you rescue it? (or bail as fast as you can?) I’ve told you that you should remember people’s names and what they do. It’s very important. It comes in handy when you want to control [...]
Dating Skills, English, General
Meeting girls at a cocktail party (part 2)
At cocktail parties, some guys just seem to attract women naturally, well, just not you! But why? What can you do to improve your charm? It’s not just looks that count, although good looks help. But for nerds like you, there are things you can do to improve you chances. In this issue, we talk [...]
Dating Skills, English, Etiquette, General
Meeting girls at a cocktail party (part 1)
So, you’re at a cocktail party, dressed to impress. Then you see her. You walk up to say hello and introduce yourself. You feel a rush and you blushed. Your tongue is tied and you didn’t know what else to say. Then, she loses interest and walks away after a superficial “nice meeting you [...]
Attitude, Dating Skills, English, General
You gotta have Confidence (part 4)
A confident person does not necessary have good communication skills. These people are described as being cocky. Meanwhile, some people are very confident, firm, and sometimes quite intimidating but not necessary cocky. What’s the difference? Confident people who: lack communication skills, cannot empathize with other people, refuse to acknowledge that people could have different [...]
Attitude, English, Etiquette, General
Everyone is Brad Pitt to girls if you do it right
Attitude is the key of getting girls. You do not need to have a perfectly handsome look of Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt to be able to score hot girls; you just need to have a charismatic attitude. A large part of being smooth lies on showing your unique attitude. It’s the attitude that triggers [...]
Attitude, Bar/Club, English
Secrets on picking ladies on the dance floor (Part 2)
Posted on 01 March 2009
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Bar/Club, Dating Skills, English, Etiquette
Meeting girls at a cocktail party (part 3)
Posted on 22 February 2009
If you’re able to control the flow of a conversation, you have an advantage at cocktail parties. Women will be charmed by your confidence and skill. As I said in the previous article, you should have remembered people’s names and what they do after chatting with them. This information will come in handy. For example, a [...] Continue Reading
Attitude, Bar/Club, English
Secrets on picking up ladies on Dance Floor (Part 1)
Posted on 21 February 2009
I have seen lots of miserable moves from guys in Disco/Club (or bar with dance floor, whatever you want to call that). Now let us share some secrets on how to pick up ladies on the dance floor or club. Remember, to be able to pick up ladies on dance floor or clubs, you need to [...] Continue Reading
Dating Skills, English
Asking a girl out for movies
Posted on 18 January 2009
Seeing a movie is an essential part of dating. Listen nerds, you need to get it right. These are the things you need to pay attention to: Choosing the right film: women are emotional, so for goodness’ sake don’t bring her to a war movie, stupid teenage horror flicks or any movie with blood [...] Continue Reading
Dating Skills, 中文 (Simplified Chinese)
怎样约她看电影
Posted on 18 January 2009
去看电影, 是你追求她的过程中的必须环节. 处理适当, 她就会对你留下好的印象. 你们电车男要注意的事情如下: 选择电影: 女人是感情的动物, 你就不要选战争片, Hollywood式的恐怖片(那仲大量血腥或怪物黏液其实一点都不恐怖, 只是用特技效果来吓人)比如Alien vs Predator, 或者打抖片/工夫片. 因为女人是不会为怪物, 战争或打抖而感动的. 你请她去看这类型的电影她会觉得你不够细心, 完全是出于你自己想看, 也没有考虑她想不想看这电影, 还要她浪费两个小时来陪你. 选电影之前要看看网上的评语, 选好了目标才行动. 建议选一些小品或让人感动的题材. 女人毕竟是感情丰富的. 买票/订票: 你要赢得她的心, 就要让她感觉到她有多重要. 所以你约她看电影必须要提前订好票. 大部分电车男都不细心. 每次看电影都是临时排队买票. 你们太差劲了, 你想, 一个女孩子穿了高根鞋, 外面天气又冷(热). 答应你出来看电影, 还要站在门口排队买票, 排到头又发现满座没票了,或者只剩下旁边/角落最不好的位置, 你的安排太不像样了, 你怎么当男人的呀? 在美国, 电影界的票是没有固定位置的, 买了票就随便坐哪里都行. 所以要提前到达, 迟到的如果运气不好就只能分开坐了. 在亚洲一般的电影院都是固定对号入座的, 问题不大. 电影院里的表现: 你们两要在一起待两个小时, 正好是你表现你伸士风度的好机会. 电影院都很冷. 你应该问她要不要你的衣服. 万一看了感动的情节她哭了你要准备纸巾. 啊, 忘了提醒你们, 关掉手机. 在外国, 人家都很懂得礼貌, [...] Continue Reading
Attitude, Dating Skills
Keeping in touch with the girl
Posted on 16 January 2009
A lot of nerds will do/think this way: Wow I really like/admire this girl, let me call her all the time and see if she would go out with me. Big mistake! DO NOT call the girls at all! I repeat DO NOT call the girls at all. Even if you do, keep it shortly, keep [...] Continue Reading
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