Attitude is the key of getting girls. You do not need to have a perfectly handsome look of Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt to be able to score hot girls; you just need to have a charismatic attitude. A large part of being smooth lies on showing your unique attitude. It’s the attitude that triggers seduction and emotional wants from the opposite sex.

What’s ‘charismatic’ means in girls mind? Should you be a super nice guy? NO. Be the opposite of it. This is the only important thing to remember if you forget everything from this post. Why being a super nice guy won’t get your any girls? Because there are all other men out there are the nice guys! You do not stand out in front of girls by being another ‘ nice guy. Period.

Attractive girls always have a crush (or fall in love) with bad guys, like rockstar, motorcycle rebels, cowboys, etc. Why? Because they are rebels, unique in a male seductive ways, and female likes it. Humans are mammals, which are no different from animals; female is attracted to male’s dominant genres, power, and conquering attitude.

Don’t get us wrong, you do not really need to play guitar, ride motorcycle to get girls (of course that would help though), you just need to have the same ‘bad guy’ attitude. This attitude can be learnt. We will discuss about this in the later posts. To start with, just remember not to do what a normal nice guy would do, and they you are already half way through success.

All the nerds are thinking, to be able to score girls, you need to be super nice guy, like calling the girls all the time, treating them for dinners, walking them home, in order to show your interest, right? WRONG! Wake up guys, be Cool. Let me tell you all, to be able to score girls, you need to be the exact opposite! How?

Be different - Be opposite to a nice guy! Never explicitly praise a girl, never buy girls dinner, never ‘walk’ the girl home, never call the girls, never buy girls gift in any non-special occasion. Yes you hear us right! Do the opposite things to what all the nice guys do. Good news for you: Being a cool guys is pretty easy, do not do anything, keep the girls guessing. Now this is different!

Seductive Attitude - Then all of you are going to ask: Okay I could not do all the above, then what can I do? Be more ‘Proud’ about yourself in front of girls, and show in actions that the girls (even the drop-dead gorgeous ones that you are dying to get) are not that important to you. We are not asking you to praise yourself all the time, but we are asking you to act like a jerk in front of girls to seduce them. You need to have the attitude that you are giving the girls a chance to meet you, rather than you give them a chance. Stop making her think that she’s the center of attention. YOU are the center of attention. The strategy is to be in front of the girls, but treat them as normal people (less important than you). Show the girls that they are just normal people. Do not panic because you like that girl

Seductive Tease - This is a further step to get girls once you master the chill and jerk attitude. Instead of praising the girls all the time (which 1000 other normal guys do), tease the girls. Yes you heard me right! Tease them. How? Try this: Instead of saying ‘Wow your hair is beautiful’, playfully tease the girls and say ‘Haha you hair looks like a wig!’ and touch on their hair at the same time. Instead of saying ‘your dress looks pretty’, say ‘Your dress makes you look like a Christmas tree, Ha!’ Say it with a sense of humor or laugh, and briefly touch their hair or dress; or even ask them to turn around and see if they get fat. Girls will not be angry at these, instead they will feel more comfortable with you.

Look! Now you are different from the other guys!

A lot of nerds will do/think this way: Wow I really like/admire this girl, let me call her all the time and see if she would go out with me. Big mistake!

DO NOT call the girls at all! I repeat DO NOT call the girls at all. Even if you do, keep it shortly, keep the phone conversation under 2 minute, period. Girls are sensible animals, if they sense ‘Oh my god! This guys is calling me all the time, and he’s not cute’, you will be immediately flagged ‘Loser’ on your face. You will never be able to score that girl.

Let me ask all of your: Have you tried being ditched by a girl at the last minute with some lame reason? ‘Oh my cousin is in town!’, ‘Oh I did not feel well!’, ‘Oh I have to stop by my friends’ birthday!’ These are all lame reasons. They ditch you because you are Not Important to her. Period. Do not give yourself excuse. You are probably calling her too many times and freaking her out. She is probably not interested in you. You Losers!

Here is what you should do. To keep in touch with girls, do not call them all the time. Talking on the phone does not help scoring her. Meeting her in person is the key. So you got what I mean, everything single time you pick up the phone and call the girl, there is one and only one purpose: to ask her out, nothing else. To avoid awkward situation, I suggest sending the girls SMS (Text message) rather than calling her.

When asking the girls out via SMS, there are 2 rules.

Rule number 1: Never send a close question like ‘Do you want to go out on Sat night?’ In this case she will feel weird and just say ‘No’ and make up some lame excuse to ditch you. Instead, you should ask an open-ended question, like ‘Hey what are you doing Saturday?’ This way, you give her a chance to invite you to ask her out :. If the girl is a little playful or interested I you, she will usually say ‘Oh nothing much, Why?’ What she really means is ‘Oh do you want to ask me out, stud?’ You are half-way towards success.

Rule number 2: Do not make the girl feels that she’s important. Let’s say the girl says ‘Oh nothing much, why?’, then you should say this ‘Oh I and couple friends are going to this bar tonight, do you want to join us?’ See this is very natural and usually the girl will say ‘yes’. Why? Because it seems like you are cool, and what’s more important, you do not seem like a freak or stocker. If she says ‘no’, no big deal, you can be cool and say ‘oh next time then’ and ask her out next time. Again, the key is not to make the girl feel she’s important, so do NOT twist around the date/time/event as if she’s the princess. You have to have a standpoint and that’s what the girls like.

When you go out with her, you can simply bring some friends out and let the girl join (make sure you do not bring another nerd/loser!) or you can just make up some excuse like ‘Oh my friends could not make it’

Good luck on asking her out!